Friday, 17 June 2011

Do you ever feel like this?

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What Is Loneliness?


There are many descriptions of loneliness. They often contain words that describe feelings like despair, emptiness, hopeless and longing. Which one of the following descriptions of loneliness feels right to you?
  • A feeling of having no common bond with the people around you
  • Feeling disconnected from others
  • Feeling sad because there is no one else available to be with you
  • Feeling uncomfortable being by yourself
  • Feeling that there is no one in your life who really cares about you
  • Being without friends or a companion
  • Feeling like you don’t have anyone who wants to be with you
  • Feeling abandoned
  • Being unable to connect with anyone on either a physical or emotional level
  • Feeling left out
  • Being alone and not comfortable being with yourself 
Source 

Wednesday, 15 June 2011

I get by with a little help from my friends.

They were onto something, that Lennon and McCartney...






You can fill your life with many good things, but if you don't have good friends to share it with you'll still feel lonely.



This is me, then.






















When you keep leaving and starting up in new places, friendships get damaged, they end, they implode. Sometimes you make new friendships that heal the pain from the old ones ending, or fill the void the old ones left, but sometimes you meet a lot of people and soon realise they are not real, close friends. This can be hard. Maintaining friendships is difficult, and if anyone has a blueprint could they please share it with the world.

People always ask me what is the difference between my experience in China and Korea. I never say this but the truth is; friendships.

Saturday, 11 June 2011

Travelling with pomegranates.

Today is my mum's birthday. Well actually today is the 16th May, but I am experimenting with scheduling blog posts. I am writing this now, because I just finished reading 'Traveling with pomegranates' by Sue Monk Kidd and Ann Kidd Taylor. It's a travel book about a mohter and daughter's trips to Greece and France. I have really enjoyed it and it will be my mum's birthday present this year. I really enjoyed this book so if you get a chance and you are interested in people's travels definitely give it a go. This book has also ignited in me a desire to revisit Greece. I have a dream about living in a small house/apartment on a Greek hillside, bright white walls and light blue shutters, with a terrace overlooking the aegean sea. One day... one day! 

So this post is dedicated to my mum, Happy Birthday, and one day soon we'll go travelling somewhere again. With or without the pomegranates!







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Thursday, 9 June 2011

Sand in my shoes

and everywhere else. I love the beach, I like the sea (sometimes) but I HATE sand.  Anyway this weekend I encountered sand every day. We had a long weekend so there was a mass exodus from Seoul as everyone headed down to Busan to take advantage of the beaches. There was a sand festival on Haeundae beach (see the pictures from this on his blog) We also took a tour of the two famous bays in Busan (Gwangali and Haeundae) from a replica pirate ship. We did the tour that left at 7 so we were able to watch the beaches transition from day to night as the neon lights lit up both bays and the bridge too. It was a good trip that I would recommend.


Wongers crash landing



Lammers smooth sliding

Easy



Henna tattoos that rubbed off about 2 hours later. He got a scorpion cos his friends said they were getting the same. After he paid for his they changed their minds!


 Our dinner saturday night. Beer can chicken - Try and say that without it sounding like 'Bacon chicken' in a Jamaican accent! :-)


Peg Leg Lam


Gwangali

Pirates

Diamond Bridge

Lights

I don't like manequins.


It was really misty and looked like we were heading into nothing-ness. Eerie!



4 in the back of a taxi
Sunday breakfast!
                   

                                       

Food and books

This post pretty much sums up my weekday evenings at the moment. Eating and reading, and the gym as well but I don't have any pictures of that. Thank goodness! Saving isn't much fun, but planning what you will do with those savings is incredibly fun. Tonight I will be booking my flight out of Seoul in August (and back again 3 weeks later). Saigon here I come!


Vietnamese food with School. That rice was far spicer than I had anticipated! 
Delicious! Salad and fried dumpings (the other dish is a buckwheat noodles thing which I didn't try)

Loving this stuff at the moment!

Crisps that come with their own dip. Ingenious! (Nicola this is in your next parcel from Korea!)

Strawberries

I had a big one (that what she said!)

Wongers. Opposite directions home!

Contemplative

Spending too much money on books. Kev: "Don't you have an English language library in Seoul?" Me: "Yeah but I like keeping the books on my shelf".

Monday, 30 May 2011

Geoje POW Camp

A couple of weeks ago I went to visit the site of a POW camp on Geoje Island (very near to Busan). I was really disappointed with the site and wasn't sure whether to post about it or not. Since I have the pictures from it I've decided to voice my opinion on the place, and what I feel are it's bad points. Firstly let me say that I've come to realise how lucky us Europeans (Gasp a Briton referring to themselves as European, what would the Queen say!), how lucky we are. Despite being ravaged by war throughout history, many, many historical sites still exist and have been well kept or restored. In my experience in this part of Asia (China and Korea are my examples), places of historical importance or interest have been totally destroyed, and what now stands in their place are below par replicas. Case in point: Geoje POW Camp. Whilst we were there I got the feeling of it being in a similar vein to Auchwitz (which I have also visited). I know they are not the same as one housed soldiers and the other total innocents, but still there is a slight similarity as they both were held as prisoners. In Auschwitz you are confronted with the horror of the place and the exhibits show you exactly what went on there, in all it's gory details. This Korean camp was like being at a theme park. There was even a place for children to stick their heads through wooden screens and have their pictures taken as one of the prisoners. This area was called 'Photo Park'.

Around the main area there was nothing original still standing. Plastic figures showed you what camp life was like (there was even a modal of a guy squatting over the latrine). The captions below every picture or reconstruction inform you that 'conditions met with the Geneva convention rules'. This to me read like propaganda. I hazzard a guess that not every single guard knew the rules of the Geneva convention let alone followed them to the letter. Please don't water down my information. I want to know what actually happened in this place. Call me crazy but isn't it important to see where we went wrong so we can learn from it in the future?! For me as soon as I have 'look how good we were' shoved down my throat everything begins to lose it's authenticity. (another case in point; The museum to resist US aggression and aid Korea, Dandong, China. So biased I walked around the whole place godsmacked!). Here are two examples of the propaganda from the war on show there:

This reads: Where would you rather be? Blair Hall; Princeton University (above). If your parents had the money, you might be there instead of in Korea. University students get draft deferments. US Marines in Korea (below). Gaunt and tired after facing death on a night patrol. They couldn't go to college and got no draft deferments.

and this one says:


‘She’s happy because her husband is a POW and no longer risking his life on the front lines. She KNOWS he will go back to join her as soon as the armistice is signed.

What about you? You may be killed or maimed any minute. That’s why your mother, your wife or your sweetheart don’t know a moments peace from worry about you. Why don’t you ease their minds. Why don’t you make sure you too will go home.
THINK IT OVER!     RIGHT NOW!

The Koreans and Chinese are lenient with their prisoners. They guarantee your life, security and freedom for maltreatment.’


Anyway I digress. So after walking around the site, looking into empty tents and being shoved by Korean visitors who rushed around each exhibit, click, got a photo, and onto the next one, click, and on again, click click click. I felt really let down. We did manage to find a small area outside the main complex where the original buildings that are left were. These are merely shells of the guards quarters, but still they are the real parts of the camp. So my verdict? Not worth it, read about the place on the 'net if you're interested. Save your money and go to the DMZ instead.

See you again? Don't hold your breath.


A ride through the big tank.

Communists to the left of me, capitalists to the right, here I am, stuck in the middle with you.

Nice.

Camp life

Fights between the communists and anti-communists.


Ignorance breeds Ignorance.

Reconstructed camp.

Looks, here's me, pretending to be a Prisoner of war. What fun!

Another photo op.




Something interesting, I wish I could have read it: Kim Il-Sung's letter to Mao Zedong asking for assistance.

A big helmet

This is what the DMZ soldiers do.

Urinal

Carrying away the sh*t.

People lined up to have their picture taken squatting behind him.